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Emotional addict in a relationship world.

Emotional addict in a relationship world.

As a woman and I have coached clients who still believe into over the top, emotional passionate love. I am all for it, if emotions and passion [read hormones] are not the only ones governing the relationship.

One of the most surprising discoveries, that many singles find shocking is that couples that have those stable, functional, committed relationships – love each other tenderly, however they are rather balanced, easy-going, calm and from afar appear dull and almost emotionless. No, they are not lacking emotions - they do get mad, they feel joy and sometimes even argue; however, it all happens sans drama and with mutual respect and understanding.

The intensive loneliness course.

The intensive loneliness course.

Upon stepping onto my journey of self-discovery and perfection, I found myself on the outs with majority of people close to me. They could not understand the urgency of my obsession, why did I need somebody to share my life with? They thought that I was searching for my other half, for something that was missing to be whole again, and it sure started out that way – until I faced the truth that I need to be whole in order to be whole with someone else.

Upon the journey of becoming a whole and an individual I have faced an overwhelming amount of negative emotions. The most cruel and debilitating of them all was loneliness.
To paint the picture of the intensity that loneliness manifests as I described it as “…the heart still loves. It’s open and it’s bleeding out. It’s leaking pain and hemorrhaging love; love and pain so closely intertwined”

This is a message from the future!

Have you ever thought about how cool would it be to check in with your future self and know where you’re going in your life? I am here to share with you about a cool little ritual I’ve created for myself back 10 years ago, and its been paying off.

Many people have stories about their intuition trying to warn them whether to make one decision or not. It is that gnawing feeling that usually comes prior to getting into a car before a crash, or making a risky financial decision on a stock market… A voice telling you to get out of the relationship that is not serving you, or that voice that tells you to call your relatives moments before their lives fundamentally change for better or worse… That voice is your intuition. Have you ever followed it and been rewarded? Have you ignored it and got consequences less than pleasant? I’ve been on both ends of that equation and I got news – you can train yourself to listen to it.